... She did apologize to me, in a very uncharacteristically sincere way. And she has been extra - well, she has not been acting like herself, in some big ways.

But that could still be a trick, or she could decide she wants to stick with her historically established tendencies, and we need to be prepared for that. If she is somehow turning over a new leaf or whatever, then the boundaries we draw will not be a problem for her, but we will still be covered.

Maybe we will get somewhere with this more easily if we list the things we are not okay with her doing. In my opinion, we need to make it clear that she cannot treat everything in the Watchtower - including us - as if it were available for free use. Basically, have some manners. Also we need to know what she is bringing into the building. I had some of the brownies too, we do all tend to need help relaxing, BUT Bucky was right about it being a problem that mind-altering substances were here and in food before we knew about them.